Now people used to say that great things comes in the form of small sizes/
[insert any term equivalent]. For example, a diamond ring comes in a small box right, and yet it could worth up to thousands, millions, or possibly even more. And so people come to a general conclusion, that
"The smaller sized it is, the more worth-for-money it is". LOL!
Wait a minute. I think that quote is only suitable for describing gifts or presents received. Hahaha. Don't simply relate it with other stuffs yea. It's not applicable! =P
Hey, the main point isn't this. Okay now, cut the crap. Darn. I'm being a lil' bit materialistic here. Woops.
Anyway, the essence that I wanna stress on in this post would be that
small things matters the most. In which for this case, are those things that guys do for girls, so sweet and touching that it is priceless! Can't even be compared to the most expensive thing in this universe. =D Haha. Alright I exaggerated. Who cares anyway. She's happy, he's happy, and everyone's happy. Bleh~
While there are many things in this world that can be bought by money, there are also certain things that simply just can't be bought with money. And those things comes in the form of actions done that emits straight from the pure & sincere heart.
♥Here's a list that I came out with
(by myself), not copied from any sources
(email or whatever):
- He knows a lot about you (hobbies, interests, activities, so on..) *amazed*
- He remembers your birthday even when you thought it wasn't on his mind.
- Subsequently he throws an amazing surprise birthday party for you. (adds to happiness effect)
- He spent hours making a handmade gift especially for you. (doesn't matter if he has no skill and the result is ugly)
- He spent countless amounts of time, effort and sweat just to achieve something for you (ie. win a soft toy at the fun fair booth) *priceless*
- He surprises you with creative stuffs that you never thought he can do.
- He surprises you out of nowhere with really special things.
- Basically, he just SURPRISES you! ^^
- He designs a specially made photo mosaic collage for you. (even though he isn't that skillful)
- He dedicates a song for you, which is self composed by him. (even though he never did that before)
- He dedicates messages to you. Self written. It comes from deep within his heart.
- He sprung on you with hugs & kisses. (only for the case of bf & gf status. If just friends, of course can't simply do that! O_O")
- He holds your hand everywhere both of you goes. (even in public, in front of family members and friends. Does NOT simply let go.) When someone comes in between (a little lost child or anyone who accidentally walked in between), he still doesn't let go! Instead, he cleverly brings up his hand to let the person pass through underneath, while STILL holding your hand. =))
- He holds your hand when you're feeling down. (also applies for those who are in bf & gf status only)
- He comforts you while you're feeling sad, and subsequently tries to cheer you up again. (even if it means making silly faces in public or something)
- He offers to carry you while your legs are tired or you're hurt and couldn't really walk anymore.
- He offers you his jacket when you're feeling cold. (even though he himself feels cold too)
- He treats you well as though you're the priority above everything else.
- He offers to massage you when you tell him that you're tired. (in which it means a proper massage with no hands wondering to places that he shouldn't!)
- He offers to help you carry heavy things when he sees you struggling. Even though you're doing well carrying by yourself, he still offers to help. *awwwww*
- When you're in trouble, he does not hesitates and be the first to offer you help. He tries his best no matter what. (ie. your high heels broke, he leads you to sit down at somewhere safe, then rush to the nearest shoe shop and gets you a new pair of shoes which is just exactly your size!)
- He makes sure that you're comfortable with the plans. If not, he'll change it.
- He asks for your opinion or decision in things he's gonna do/ intends to do.
- He lets you decide where to have dinner, what movie to watch, etc etc...
- He watches out for your step as both of you walked.
- He does not get mad at you even when you're late. :P
- He makes sure that you start eating first, then he eats.
- He attentively brings food to your plate when you can't reach it. Even though you can, he still take cares of you by doing so. *awwwww*
- He's willing to spend time to listen to your problems/ dilemmas/ anything.
- He still did something that you said "NO" to, just because he knows that your 'no' actually means a 'yes'. So damn smart! Right on lorh. *bliss* (ie. you saw something from a shop, you commented how nice the thing is. Then, he asks if you want it, you said no because you didn't want him to spend the unnecessary money, but he went in and bought it! =_=") *touching*
- He climbs 10 floors of staircases (may vary) just to help you retrieve something important which you have forgot to bring and so happens the lift service is not working. He does it without complaining. *super touching*
- When you're unreachable, he gets worried and he texted like a thousand messages into your cell phone inbox or call-until-you-pick-up that kinda. (sometimes really unnecessary worrying though, but that's what makes you like it so much) *hearts*
- He knows how you like something so much, and no matter how far he has to travel to get it for you, he still does that. Die die also will try to get it for you. *OMG uber loves*
Things like these are just like gifts, however they are priceless gifts that can't be bought with money. It can't be sold off either. Don't you agree? Uber sweet and touching aitex? :)
Basically, whether you're single, in a relationship, taken, available or any other kind, these are the things that captures a girl's heart.
♥ I mean it actually has a very great effect that most people wouldn't know of
(especially guys). It sorta gives you the extra plus points.
*wink*To summarize everything of the above, it actually means that a guy has to be helpful, unpredictable, selfless, caring and attentive. All in all, be a gentleman of course. =)
By the way, all these are just examples given to elaborate the situation clearer. Yours truly has no relation to what-so-ever events that was stated here.
Well I'm sure everyone has their own story to tell. You can share with me if you want. :) Hehe. What are the small things that makes you particularly happy of?
*curious*p.s. The thought of this topic came to me while I was taking a bath. LOL! The thing is, ideas seems to flow through me so easily and usually during my shower time. LOL~ Or at the times where I don't have any paper and pen with me. Yea, pretty cool. =_=" Never seemed to figure out why, but it's the truth. Hmm.. I guess cold water helps to circulate one's blood flow better, therefore more oxygen goes into the brain. Haha.. So called 'chi' energy huh? Or was that? :P
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